Dec 22 2011

Before Judgement – Walk a Mile in Their Shoes

Category: The American JesusBrent Watkins @ 3:25 PM

Yesterday I made it official. I told my former pastor, a brother I dearly love, that I would be leaving their congregation. I had been an associate pastor at his church for 12 years. During that time I went from being a happy spokesperson for conservative Evangelical Christianity, to an anguished soul wondering how I found myself representing something so at odds with who I was and how I was raised.This wasn’t his fault. This was something I was entirely responsible for.

As I begin to see the next leg of my journey unfold, I am thankful for what I’ve learned along the way. The last five years has been spent rediscovering my true identity: Not who I thought my parents wanted me to be, not what I thought it meant to be a “good Christian,” in short, no longer living to please other people. Now I want only to please a God who transformed my life from a selfish, self absorbed pig of a human into a person who desires only to reflect His love.

That’s what God is to me.

Love.

God is love.

Why do we forget that? Why has organized, institutional religion departed from the simplicity of Christ’s message into a convoluted hodge podge of theology and tradition?

You see, when we view God as love, the presentation of Christ becomes so simple. The life of Jesus serves as an icon of that love (John 1:1) The cross has long represented exactly how much we are called to sacrifice so others might experience true love. Is the cross offensive to you? Forget about the cross, there have been countless symbols that embody His love. Choose a memorial to one you are most comfortable with. Jesus never asked the cross to be His official icon. He asked that HE be that icon.

When faith is viewed in this light, there really are no atheists, for what the atheist is saying is they reject the way God is presented to them, not what God represents. After all, who is truly saying, “I don’t want to give and receive love?” The life of Christ settles the definition of love, as that definition is this, “Greater love hath no man than he should lay down his life for his friends.”

As I laid out this presentation of Christianity to my non-Christian friend, he reflected on this for a moment and said, “I’m OK with the idea of someone laying down their life for me. I just don’t want to lay down my life for them.”

Wow. Honesty. How refreshing.

So I take back what I just said. There ARE those who simply don’t want to give their lives for others. There are many who, like me, wanted to receive a “whole lotta love” without giving one drop in return.

This brings me to a central question: How can we lay down our lives for our friends if aren’t fully committed to understanding their struggles, their fears, their gifts and their dreams? How can we be willing to give our lives for another if we don’t know what exactly it is about them that is worth dying for?

How can we die for someone if we aren’t first willing to walk a mile in their shoes?

I’m not saying that to understand a drug addict we have to become addicted to drugs, I’m merely saying we need to actually listen to their life story enough to understand WHY they became drug addicts.

Interesting how people can pass judgement on others so quickly without taking the time to walk a mile in their shoes. Consistently I’ve observed these same people retreat from their platitudes and dogma when they come face to face with the targets of their criticism and are forced to look them squarely in the eyes.

Funny how our worldview changes when we take time to live in another person’s world.


Jun 24 2011

Why the desire for a “Christian” nation is wrong

Category: The American JesusBrent Watkins @ 11:15 PM

An article appeared a couple of years ago in USA Today that revealed the number of people claiming “no religious affiliation” had almost doubled, going from 8 percent in 1990 to 15 percent in 2008. All signs point to traditional religion being on the decline. I, for one, think this is a very good thing.

Don’t get me wrong, I want to be on the winning team. Most do. Recalling the famous quote popularized by Jack Kennedy, “Success has a thousand fathers, failure is an orphan” – few want to be orphaned by failure or siding with the losing team.

When this attitude infects our faith the results are costly.

Read the teachings of Christ. The breadth of his entire communication was devoid of the hubris associated with a conquering king. On the contrary, he had a difficult time persuading his disciples that following Him would be, in the short term, a losing proposition.

By “short term” I mean the time between when He was crucified and when He promises to return. By “losing” I mean that following Him will require the willingness to lose so much on so many levels – loss of personal comfort, loss of financial security, loss of friends and family – oh yea, and perhaps the loss of your life. If you lived during the few centuries after the death of Christ, often it meant the loss of your life and the lives of everyone you knew who admitted to being a follower of Jesus Christ.

What a disappointment then, that institutional Christianity has become preoccupied with winning.  Not that the New Testament doesn’t discuss victory. Jesus talks about our victory over the desires of this world (For whatever is born of God overcomes the world; and this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith.)

Paul talks about our victory in Christ. However, this victory refers to our victory over death (O death, where is thy sting, oh grave, where is thy victory.”)

Nowhere do the Gospels refer to victory within any given culture, whether defeating Rome, unseating Herod, or even dismantling Pharisaic Judaism. God alone dealt with these empires according to His sense of Justice and in His good time – often diametrically opposed to what His followers wanted to see happen.

Fast forward to the United States in the late 1980’s; I too cheered our team onward. I too had been intoxicated with the lust for victory over everyone and everything that contradicted my narrow view of how I believed God would work in the affairs of man. I buoyed myself with the thought of “winning a nation for Christ.”

After all, we were like a football team deep in our own territory with our backs against our own goal. To please God, we needed to fight for our faith. We needed to transition from a slow lumbering ground game to a dramatic passing offense and “go deep” for Jesus.

We used a short list of issues that defined the battle lines. We became determined to elect candidates who ran on “family values” themes. The thought was that if we could just elect enough “Christian” politicians, hire enough “Christian” teachers, listen to enough “Christian” music – we could somehow usher in Christ’s return, providing Him a ready-made platform where all the heavy lifting of His second coming had already been done.

Again in a demonstration of our devotion to God, we segregated ourselves from the rest of the world, thinking our faith demanded we be removed from anyone who did not share our viewpoint.

I had a good friend who returned to the United States after living abroad for 20 years. His English wife observed this about America, “ We have too much “god” and not enough love.”

An “us” versus “them” attitude results in those who belong to the “them” category having no difficulty discerning what the agenda of the “us” is. This segregation goes further to even make distinctions within the community of Christ. The need to be described as “evangelical” presumes that Christians who don’t share our worldview are not “evangelical,” neglecting the fact that the very essence of being a Christian includes a desire to persuade all to embrace Christ’s love. In the eyes of the Evangelical Christian – other Christian sects don’t cut the mustard.

The consequence of a theology hyper-focused on speedy conversion is rooted in dispensational theology that emerged in the late 19th century through leaders like John Nelson Darby. Darby, as did many who followed, espoused the belief the “end times” were eminent and therefore the focus of the church should be to convert as many people as possible before the world ends.

The long term consequence of this perspective results in a community of Christians acting as if their spiritual training comes from the business world, where success is measured in numbers. Sales need to be made and they need to be made quickly. The success of all spiritual endeavors is measured in the numbers attached to their “soul winning.”

The problem with this strategy is that it relies on the most superficial methods of social engagement to accomplish short term goals based on an eschatology that was a radical departure from the Christianity that existed the previous 1800 years.

I believe it was no accident this brand of Christianity emerged alongside the industrial revolution. In nations like England and the United States, the demands of production became so inculcated in our culture that even the church became conformed to an assembly line approach to growth.

How very different is faith expressed among non-industrialized nations, where the seasons of life are not measured between 9am and 5pm nor the business quarter, but by a much slower more patient calendar.

This was the landscape in which Christ emerged; one where he could spend days, weeks, even years dining with, sleeping with and working with a few men he would transform into His likeness.

There is no shortcut to the deep intimacy required to produce relationships where one is willing to die for another, let alone the willingness to die for those who oppose us. Yet this is exactly the path demonstrated by Christ – and utterly rejected by conservative evangelical Christians.

What proof do I have of this sweeping accusation that conservative evangelicals are unwilling to die for their faith?

Look no further than their opposition to key social issues. Instead of a strategy that welcomes the sacrifice of our own lives as a commitment to demonstrating our love for those who disagree with us, they are convinced that a strategy that protects them from all perceived dangers will win the day.

Consider today’s social hot-button: Gay Marriage.

The argument is basically this: No society that endorses homosexuality survives for long. Allowing gay marriage will end the institution of marriage as we know it. The end of marriage as we know it will lead to a breakdown of society. A breakdown of society will inevitably lead to the end of civilization as we know it.

Hmm. This sounds familiar. Where has the end of a civilization occurred before?

The year is 312 A.D. Emperor Constantine inherited an empire that, throughout the last several hundred years, attempted to eradicate Christianity through unmatched brutality and murder.

Amazingly, the new Emperor who began his reign with a similar agenda has a miraculous spiritual encounter that leads him to not only tolerate Christians, but prefer Christianity above all other competing religions. Christians soon found seats within the halls of power and participated in Roman governance. After Constantine, all the Roman Emperors to follow were Christian.

The amazing spiritual transformation of Roman culture from polytheism to Christianity was truly miraculous. Surely such an embrace of the faith would seal their favor with God as a nation and an empire.

Unfortunately, within the same century, the Roman Empire that lasted half a millennium came to a catastrophic end as the nation disintegrated under the onslaught of marauding Vandals, Visigoths and Huns – all of which were non-Christian.

Yet the Christian faith not only survived – it thrived.

What I have been telling my evangelical friends lately is this:

Let’s suppose what you say is true. Let’s imagine that your worse fears about the “homosexual agenda” become a reality.

Let’s say that your rights as a Christian are not merely limited, but terminated altogether.

…and let’s go even further…let’s say they bust down your front door and lay waste to you and your family.

Sound like a horrific future?

Welcome to the 2nd and 3rd centuries A.D, because this was exactly what life was like for most Christians in the Roman Empire.

What did these Christians do? They did exactly what Christ did. They rejoiced that they could demonstrate the same sacrifice made by the founders of our faith – the same sacrifice made by their savior.  They influenced a culture because of their selfless sacrifice for their cause. Instead using their physical might to persuade, their persuasion came solely by their willingness to sacrifice themselves wholly at the whims of others. This proved too impressive to resist.

Where do we as Christians get off thinking we have somehow been relieved of this mandate? How exactly is it we think we will influence anybody when we have so retreated from any notion of self-sacrifice that our last refuge is using our government as a proxy for a job only an intimate enclave of Christians can accomplish?

If the government has become an arbiter of morality – my God – talk about lowering your standards:

You can get drunk – so long as you don’t drive.

Overeat until you can’t walk.

Gamble to your heart’s content.

Lie at will, just not in a court of law or to a law enforcement official.

Cheat on your spouse.

Get a divorce

What queer lines Christians choose to draw regarding legislating their world view. Why such abhorrence of one issue whilst countless other immoral endorsements are so completely overlooked.

Personally, I believe if there is one issue that IS abhorrent to God, it’s a nation whose Christians have become so enmeshed in their culture of entitlement that they would prefer another die for their cause than they should die for their own.

Shortly after 9/11, during our invasion of Afghanistan I heard General Patten’s quote bandied about with glee – even within the church – that says essentially the same thing, “Now I want you to remember that no bastard ever won a war by dying for his country. He won it by making the other poor dumb bastard die for his country.”

This bravado is antithetical to the teachings of Christ.

Could God’s warning against idolatry be in full force when we allow our personal insecurity and fears to direct our theology?

Contrary to our worst fears, we may discover that it is us, not those we point the long craggy finger of judgment towards who are closer to provoking “the Wrath of God.”

I believe God’s “win” column has little to do with “cultural transformation” and everything to do with eternal transformation – to elevate the individual from being earthly focused to becoming heavenly focused.

When others view the sacrifice of Christ – not in the symbolic or abstract – but in full force among His followers, I believe there will indeed be a cultural shift: One where there is less “god” and a whole lot more Love.

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Apr 18 2010

Hearing and Obeying – Part III

Category: The American JesusBrent Watkins @ 4:30 PM

In Part I, I described a broad guideline for how I perceive the voice of God.

I would mislead you if I did not balance what would appear as a highly individualistic approach to spirituality with the exhortation that the practice of hearing and obeying MUST occur within a spiritual community.

I join the growing number of Christian leaders who share the vision for a church lauded not for how big it is, rather, how intimate its participants are with God and one another. How can we espouse personal intimacy with God and NOT model that intimacy with one another?

I have served with leaders who were deeply wounded as a consequence of risking true personal intimacy. I believe these wounds are the result of allowing spiritual fruit found in others to rot on the vine. The most basic carnal desire is to keep those we have come to love close to us. Unfortunately, this directly contradicts the example we have in Christ. His great commission was for us to “Go into the World” not to “Stay here with me.” When we neglect this command, the pain that results from people under compulsion to stay is far greater than the sadness that occurs seeing them go.

When we master true intimacy with one another and are equally facile at recognizing the time when that intimacy must end – we (the church) will again become a potent force for world change.

My vision for church:

-          Begins with foundational discipleship (knowing who we are in Christ and what we believe as Christians)

-          Builds an overarching trust in God’s ability to personally direct each of us as the consequence of deep and substantive intimacy with one another

-          Is mission focused to support – not resist – identifying and compelling one another to obey His individual call to be sent forth as ambassadors, replicating this process wherever He leads.

-          Recognizes those who are spiritually mature without embracing a hierarchy that equates maturity with superiority, giving both the mature and novice equal freedom to fail without judgment.

“Deep and substantive intimacy with one another” cannot be obtained in large groups. I cannot participate in an institutional model that has grown beyond the means to support and sustain a true knowledge of the life, character and sensibilities of its participants.

Given this context, the exhortation to “hear and obey” God’s voice is not an invitation to an individualistic spiritual pursuit, rather, a reminder that this should be the goal of deep relationship within a spiritual community – a community passionate about multiplication not retention.

In conclusion you may wonder, “Why has he not quoted God’s Word to support his assertions?” I have many good friends and spiritual mentors highly adept at placing God’s word in proper context and using it judiciously to support their points. My aim, however, is to practically demonstrate how serious I am about turning you back to God’s Word and your relational sphere for true understanding. The selective quotation of scripture can be, in the hands of those less scrupulous, a manipulation designed to reinforce spiritual dependence on a personality. If you are intimately acquainted with God’s word your understanding will either affirm or refute my assertions. If you are not intimately familiar with His word and in deep relationship with a spiritual community, what business do you have spending your time reading what I am writing? First pursue God’s voice through meaningful relationship with others, not an author you have no personal relationship with. Devote yourself to exploring God’s word for yourself, not trusting another’s interpretation.  God’s voice will manifest as a product of intimacy with Him and be affirmed by intimacy with one another.

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